In 2002 we ran away from Illinois where we were born and raised, and started a new life in SW Florida. This blog is about me (an eccentric old artist), ROM (my Real Old Man), Isabella (our neurotic Standard Poodle) and Emmy (our crazy snake killing Jack Russell Terrier). Oh- and the neighborhood old people. Life is good in Florida!

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Wednesday, December 16, 2015

Two Old Atheists Walked Into A Mosque...

... and nothing awful happened. 

When I got up last Saturday morning, visiting a Muslim mosque was the farthest thing from my mind. Later that morning when I was reading my Twitter timeline I noticed a tweet from a Bradenton Herald reporter (Jessica De Leon) about the Islamic Society of Sarasota and Bradenton (ISSB) hosting a food and art festival at their mosque. I love food and art, plus I'm curious about Muslim culture. it seemed like the perfect distraction from my self pity party I've been wallowing in lately. So I got dressed, grabbed my camera and ROM, and off we went to the local mosque. 

I've read old online articles that claim there was a connection between past members of this mosque and the terrorists responsible for 9/11. I don't know if it's true, though I do know there was a connection between SW Florida and the 9/11 murderers. They had received flight training in Venice, FL.  Whether they had ties to this local mosque, I don't know. But I do know that I don't hold any Christian churches that Dylan Root or Robert Dear Jr. attended responsible for their horrible acts of violence against innocent people. 

I had no idea what to expect from from either the local Muslims or the general public. Since the slaughter in San Bernardino by two Muslim terrorists, there's been a backlash of fear and hatred toward Muslims... all Muslims. Trump has a large support base in this area and I wondered if they would be there protesting. 

As we approached the entrance to the mosque, I noticed a police car with the lights flashing and immediately assumed the worse. 



I was relieved and surprised to discover that the police were there only to direct traffic to the overflow parking area across the street from the mosque. I was amazed at the size of the crowd, but still curious as to what the mood would be inside the mosque.  As we made our way to the mosque I noticed many of those attending were just like ROM and me- old and white. 



Just outside the mosque was a large tent where the food vendors were set up and large tables where people could sit and eat. We unwisely decided to tour the mosque before eating. By the time we made our way back there most of the food was gone, obviously the turnout had been much larger than the vendors expected. 



The outside of mosque was beautiful with the copper (or is it gold?) dome in the rear. 

Inside the mosque there was an open courtyard with vendors set up selling their wares and an information booth giving out brochures and free Qur'ans. I passed on the Qur'an but stuck some of the brochures in my bag to read later. The woman running the information booth pointed out the Imam and urged us to talk to him if we had any questions. I'm more of an observer than a questioner so I didn't talk to him. I was surprised with how young he was. He looked to be in his twenties, and appeared to be very relaxed and approachable as he talked and laughed with people. 



I didn't take many pictures because I didn't know what the policy was for photographing inside a mosque and I seemed to be the only one with a camera. I've been taken to task by a few artists when I've tried to take photos in galleries and shows. You just never know what is going to piss someone off. So I just sneaked in some quick shots here and there. 

There were several clothing and hijabs (head coverings) sellers, a henna artist, women selling sweet desserts, a fine art artist selling prints of her paintings and other booths that I can't remember.  



I noticed there were two different entrances to the main prayer rooms- one for women and one for men, so I assume the sexes pray separately. But that's merely an assumption on my part. On this day the entrance to the men's room was open and all were invited to step inside after removing one's shoes- even women. 

It was very quiet and serene. The shadows of palm trees outside the windows danced on the walls creating accidental art. 


So what did I learn from my afternoon at the mosque? I noticed that most of the Muslims at the festival were young families. I saw very few older Muslims. One thing that surprised was how involved the men seemed to be with their children. I assumed that would be considered women's work. But I saw several men with small kids in tow with no mother in sight as they mingled and socialized. There was one man carrying a baby around in his arms the entire time we were there. 

And the women? I will never understand why any woman would choose to wear all those clothes in the Florida heat and humidity. Most of the women were dressed in several layers of clothes- long sleeves and either long dresses or long loose fitting long culotte style pants. And the head coverings- has to be stifling and sweaty. I don't know how they tolerate all those clothes in our tropical type weather. Although I'll never understand not dressing appropriately for the weather, it doesn't bother me that they choose to dress that way. It did bother me when I saw a couple women who covered their entire faces. I'm always uncomfortable when peoples' faces are covered by masks, hoods or whatever. I get a creepy sinister feeling when someone is completely covered and I can't read their facial cues. 

I was more interested in the Muslim culture than the religion, but their culture seems so entwined with their religion that it's impossible to separate the two. According to the pamphlet Concept of Islam "Muslims believe that He created humankind with a simple purpose- to worship Him". Sounds like a self serving, needy and egotistic deity to me. As fallible and imperfect as humans are, most good parents strive to raise their children to be independent and self reliant so that their kids can live successful and happy lives. What kind of parent would raise their child with the sole purpose of being worshiped? I just don't understand following a belief in anything so controlling and stifling. But then, I don't understand the blind faith in any religion. I digress, this wasn't to be a blog entry to debate the existence of a god of any religion, just my impressions from our visit to the mosque.

My overall impressions of the local Muslim people were that they're friendly, enjoy good food and love their children. 

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    1. Hey, Sparky, next time you talk to Curtis tell him hi for me. Yes, it's very unsettling when you can't see someone's face. Facial expressions say so much- whether someone is smiling and relaxed, or tense and angry. I would be very hesitant to interact with someone who had their face covered.

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  2. I was talking to Curtis (previously known as I Like It Raw) a few weeks ago about how uncomfortable I get when I encounter a woman wearing a niqab (that's the scarf that encloses most of a woman's face). The scarf is so off putting. But kudos to you for visiting the mosque.

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  3. You libtards and your pc bullshit make me sick. How many innocent Americans have to be killed before you idiots wake up. Muslims hate us and are hell bent on destroying our country. When they round up and kick out all the Muslim trash they should kick you left wingers out with them.

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    1. Anonymous,
      What does this have to do with Liberals?!.
      NOTHING.

      Don't troll here. We are a small group of friends who like to enjoy ourselves, please take your ignorance and anger elsewhere.

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  4. Proud Libtard here! Great read as usual. Sitting in hospital and read it to Dad. -Catnip

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    1. Thanks, Catnip. It was an interesting afternoon. Tell your dad hi for me!

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  5. I see you crazy trolls never stopped harassing my friend. My political views are steadfast. I love this country as much as the next US citizen. I will stay put, moderate views and all.

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    1. I can't imagine having so much hate in me that I'd feel the need to seek out blogs to vent my hatred towards people I don't even know. Can't be good for one's health to carry around so much rage. We'll out live them all, Sparky, and dance happily in our tutus.

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  6. I like the personality of this blogger.

    Unfortunately terrorists when committing their acts claim to be doing it honor or in the name of Islam and that is is the reason for the hysteria. I certainly don't hold it against Islam or every Muslim, no god or Buddha calls for beheading or acts of terrorism.

    This is good story and you are a good writer. I dont know why you call yourself old, if you were really old i don't think you would be able to write a blog.

    Nicole

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    1. Thank you, Nicole, for the kind words! But I really am older than dirt ;)

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  7. One more thing, i don't think Dylan Roof claimed to be Christian? Did he? I know he liked the confederate flag, a flag that should have been toast years ago.
    I, of course do not hold every Muslim responsible for what terrorist do.

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    1. Thanks for reading and commenting, Britt. Roof is a member of the Lutheran Church, but it's obvious from his horrible actions that he didn't practice their beliefs. Here are a couple of links to info about his religious background:
      http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-3134689/Dylann-Roof-devout-Christian-baptized-Lutheran-faith-went-church-camp-regularly-attended-Mass-reveals-pastor-family-attend-church-services-pray-massacre-victims.html

      http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2015/06/19/dylann-roof-religion-church-lutheran_n_7623990.html

      Damn, I forgot I have this set not to activate links due to spammers. If you're curious, you can copy and paste the links into your browser.

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